Something that is very pervasive is what I call desire mismatch. This is when multiple natural and healthy desires and up getting mixed together and become very unhealthy.
The most common of this is mixing up who you want to become and who you want to be with.
The natural case is for a man to want to become strong and fit, and to desire a beautiful woman.
If these desires end up getting severely switched then he wants to be with a fit and strong man, and to become a beautiful woman.
This commonly happens during puberty and adolescent growth, but most people grow out of it as they continue to explore their true desires.
Some people however end up falling down one path and more or less "locking" their mismatched desires in place.
This can cause their life to spiral out of control as everything they try to accomplish ends up not actually satisfying their deeper needs.
The most common of this is mixing up who you want to become and who you want to be with.
The natural case is for a man to want to become strong and fit, and to desire a beautiful woman.
If these desires end up getting severely switched then he wants to be with a fit and strong man, and to become a beautiful woman.
This commonly happens during puberty and adolescent growth, but most people grow out of it as they continue to explore their true desires.
Some people however end up falling down one path and more or less "locking" their mismatched desires in place.
This can cause their life to spiral out of control as everything they try to accomplish ends up not actually satisfying their deeper needs.
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